Visiting an Open House Without Me? Read This First.

A NOTE FROM STEVE BEFORE YOU GO

Go ahead. I want you to.

Open houses are a great way to get a feel for a neighborhood or a floor plan before we commit to a formal showing. You do not need me there. But before you walk through that door, there are a few things you should know about what is actually happening in that room.

The agent hosting that open house works for the seller.

This is something most buyers might not realize walking in. The listing agent’s job is to get the best possible price and terms for their client. That’s the opposite of what you need.

Open houses are also one of the only situations where a listing agent can freely interact with any buyer who walks in. No paperwork required on either side. That makes an open house a natural place for agents to look for new clients.

You are not an unrepresented buyer. But they don’t know that yet. Here’s what to do about it.

🗣 The First Thing You Say

“Hi, I’m [your name]. I’m already working with Steve Reese. Just wanted to let you know.”

Say it as soon as you walk in. No need to make a production of it. A professional will recognize the existing relationship and step back so you can enjoy the home. If I’ve given you some of my business cards, hand one over. If not, saying my name is enough.

If there is a sign-in sheet or digital form

Open House Sign-In Use my info, not yours
Name ✅ Steve Reese
Phone ✅ 405-585-6580
Email ✅ Steve@SoldonShawnee.com
Your personal contact info stays private. Any follow-up comes to me.

Sign in, but write in my information instead of yours. That list feeds the hosting agent’s follow-up contacts. You do not need messages from someone who does not represent you.

What they will ask and what you say

Even after disclosing that you are represented, a host agent may ask qualifying questions out of habit. These may sound like small talk, but they’re much more. Your answers can affect your negotiating position if you eventually make an offer on this property.

They might ask
You say
“How long have you been looking?”
Not long at all.
“Are you pre-approved?”
We’re all set on that front.
“What other homes have you seen?”
A few things here and there — Steve keeps track of all that.
“When do you need to move?”
We’re flexible on timing.
“What do you think of the price?”
Honestly, that’s what I have Steve for!
One tone fits all. None of these answers are rude or evasive. They are friendly, easy to deliver in the moment, and they keep the details where they belong: between you and me.

If the agent presses further, you can gently invite them to call or text me with any follow-up questions.

If they hand you any paperwork…

Take it, snap a photo, and text it to me. Do not sign anything on the spot. I will tell you what it is and whether it matters.

Assume you are on camera

Many homeowners monitor their open houses live. Do not talk about what you love (or don’t love), what you would pay, or what you are thinking until you are back in your car. This applies to private showings too.

Read more in the showings guide

If you toured something you would like to revisit with me, or want my read on the home, the price, or the neighborhood, reach out and I will schedule a proper showing.

If it’s THE ONE, get word to me fast.

Good homes that are priced well move quickly.

And if anything at the open house makes you uncomfortable, call or text me right away. That’s what I’m here for.

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Part of the Steps to Buying a Home series